HOW TO DISCUSS AND RESOLVE PROBLEMS WITHOUT A FIGHT WITH WOMEN(MEN'S GUIDE)

HOW TO DISCUSS AND RESOLVE PROBLEMS WITHOUT A FIGHT WITH WOMEN(MEN'S GUIDE)

In a relationship there is bound to be challenges, when you and your partner discuss a problem, do you seem to end up further apart than when you started the conversation? If so, you can improve the situation first though, there are different communication styles of men and women and we will deal with it in bits on our subsequent post but,first:
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN IN TALKING CHALLENGES:
women usually prefer to talk out a problem before hearing a solution. In fact sometime talking is the solution. Most women feel better when they can express their feelings and know their man understand them. As a man you need to practice empathetic listening. After listening you may feel you didn't accomplish anything. But often that's all she needs--- a listening ear.
TRY THIS: The next time you discuss a problem with your female partner, resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Make eye contact, and focus on what she is saying. Nod in agreement. Repeat the gist of what she says to show that you get the point .
Remember, Lead with your ears, follow up with your tongue, and let anger straggle along in the rear
Extract from Awake( jw. Org)