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Monday, September 5, 2016

RESOLVING CONFLICTS (part 3)

Dealing With Conflict

Since no two families are the same, no two people will get along perfectly.
Coming to a relationship from your unique family system insures you will have difference with your partner. Unless you clone yourself, you will be in a relationship with someone who thinks, feels, and act differently.
Both partners must understand each other family background, environment because it plays a vital role in a relationship, if each partner can't compromise each other background resolving conflict will be extremely difficult and that can lead to relationship mismanagement or conflict . 
These are some tips that can help when resolving conflicts..

1 Both partner must first admit a problem exist, if not the problem can't be resolved.

2  Make conflict resolution the priority rather than winning or being right.

3  Focus on the present and not the past.

4  Pick your battles.

5  Be willing to forgive and move on.

6  Know when to let something go.

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